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Is moving to the country worth a pay cut and a bigger mortgage?

Trading city life for rural peace often requires accepting a lower salary and a much larger new mortgage. This financial hit makes people weigh the long-term mental health benefits and family quality of life against the harsh reality of giving up a stable financial position.

Overview
People affected3 accounts across 2 forums
Workarounds found6 items attempted
Community agreement15 total upvotes

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

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    browsing houses and jobs while waiting for the right opportunity
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    considering staying in the current living situation until retirement
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    commuting into work from a rural area
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    finding a remote job before moving
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    selling rental properties or land to build up savings
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    Searching for rural school districts in states with higher salary caps such as Washington state
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In their words

Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.

r/personalfinance2 people · September 2026

“I’m willing to take a substantial pay cut to get out of the city. For my soul, my partner’s soul and my future kids experiences.”source ↗

Werewolfdad · r/personalfinance · 12 upvotes

“If I move further away from the city and get a new job like I want to, I would be taking on at least a new $75k mortgage and also a pay cut because it's more rural but I think I'll be happier and could maybe make it work.”source ↗

“I'm over stimulated and need peace and quiet.”source ↗

burnz1 · r/personalfinance · 2 upvotes

“The house is more important to me than the job so I've been prioritizing looking for housing I want and can afford near available jobs”source ↗

burnz1 · r/personalfinance · 1 upvotes
r/Teachers1 person · September 2026

“I desperately want to move into a safe, rural area but continue to teach. The rural areas surrounding my current city are substantially more costly than the city. Ive been trying to buy a home for under 230k.”source ↗

“I am finding it impossible to make what I make now and find a house that isn't in disrepair, and certainly can't find it on an acre or more at my price point. As a single person, finances are a massive stressor.”source ↗

MySpottedFrog7 · r/Teachers

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