How to stop renovating and just enjoy a new house
Urgent repairs and a mountain of projects right after moving in lead to rapid burnout and constant spending. Trying to fix everything at once stops you from actually living in the home and leaves you too exhausted to appreciate it.
What people tried
Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.
- 1riding the momentum to finish projects quickly before pets move in
- 2hiring vendors and using lockboxes to manage multiple projects at once
- 3monitoring savings to avoid spending too much money too fast
- 4Doing a lot of the labor independently with family help to save money
- 5Tackling projects room by room over time
- 6DIY the demolition after basic planning and educating yourself
- 7Start with a designer who may have trusted contractors and can help negotiate the price
- 8Find out if the wall is load bearing as the very first step
In their words
Unedited, most upvoted first, each linked to the thread it came from.
“Renovate ASAP early with young kids? Spending like crazy, recent home purchase.”source ↗
“At 6 and 4 the biggest thing they need is a swing set. They won't care about the rest, and you won't be able to enjoy anything else because you're chasing kids...”source ↗
“Do we start with an architect, interior designer or contractor?”source ↗
“How do we find someone we can trust in the Chicago area?”source ↗
“Lastly, suggestions on how to keep this from costing an arm and a leg?”source ↗
“Some people are telling me to enjoy the house. But there is a lot I feel still is a problem. 😐”source ↗
“Have I done to much since buying the house at the end of June?”source ↗
Where this came up
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