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Seller asking for extra money after purchase

Online sellers sometimes message buyers after a completed transaction demanding extra money for shipping or rising material costs like gold, claiming they would otherwise fulfill the order at a loss. This leaves buyers stuck dealing with suspicious demands, pressured to pay more than agreed, and forced to request refunds.

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

  1. 1
    Cancel the order immediately
  2. 2
    Report the conversation to platform support
  3. 3
    Refuse to pay off-platform or via a separate listing
  4. 4
    Contacting platform support to request a refund
  5. 5
    Refusing to pay more and demanding a cancellation
  6. 6
    Opening a dispute or product not as described case

In their words

Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.

r/Etsy2 people · September 2026

First red flag was after I purchased the helmet for around 100 USD... the conversion price comes up for Indian rupees.source ↗

Then, this morning I am messaged saying how I should pay them an extra 45 for shipping and costs, because they will now be making this item “at a loss”source ↗

Perkelebeast · r/Etsy · 90 upvotes

So, I recently ordered a piece of jewelry, and just a few days later, the seller sent a message saying that due to gold costs, they would like more money.source ↗

viced92 · r/Etsy · 8 upvotes

Yeah it seemed fishy to me so I reported the conversation and requested a refund. But they keep responding to me saying “oh it’s not a scam give me a chance” blah blah blah.source ↗

Perkelebeast · r/Etsy · 1 upvotes

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