What to do with your cat in their final hours
Focus the final day on your own grieving process and how you will cope once they are gone, rather than just what it means for your pet. A lack of preparation for those last moments at the vet leaves people struggling with tremendous guilt and unable to come to terms with the loss. Putting conscious effort into your own grief beforehand helps channel that terrible energy into something productive so you can embrace them until they leave.
What people tried
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What to do with your cat in their final hours
- 1Taking them outside for one last time to feel the sun or watch birds.Did this help you?
- 2Feeding them their favorite treats or forbidden foods like tuna, turkey, or chocolate.Did this help you?
- 3Preparing the burial shroud or cremation arrangements in advance so it doesn't have to be done immediately after.Did this help you?
- 4Collecting keepsakes like paw prints, fur clippings, or recording videos of them purring.Did this help you?
- 5Telling them stories, speaking comforting words, and holding them continuously.Did this help you?
In their words
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“i have the rest of the evening and the day tomorrow before the vet time at 16.00. what are some things you did, wish you did, or would do with the final hours with your cat?”source ↗
“As someone who just went through a similar experience, I had the realization that my little one’s final day was less about what it would mean for her, and more about I would be able to cope once she was gone.”source ↗
“I still feel tremendous guilt (and even after a few months, just writing this has brought back the tears) but the conscious effort I put into my own grieving helped me focus all of that terrible energy into something productive, while still centered around her.”source ↗
“This is the hardest to go through, no one really prepared me for my cat's last moments at the vet, I told her she was a good girl, embraced her until she left. Ive been really struggling since then to come to terms with it.”source ↗