Said It Here

Will my cat get depressed leaving a multi-cat home?

Leaving a multi-cat household can cause anxiety about whether a cat will feel upset or depressed in a single-cat environment. Overthinking this transition is common, though cats may also show independent behaviors like running outside when given the chance.

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

  1. 1
    Waiting for the cat to readjust over time, assuming the cat will be fine after a short absence.
  2. 2
    Taking the cat to the vet for blood work to check health
  3. 3
    Closing the door immediately after the cat comes inside for dinner
  4. 4
    Waiting for the cat to decide to come in on their own when the weather gets cooler or rainy

In their words

Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.

r/cats3 people · September 2026

Now that the evenings are cooling, I want him to come back inside to take his usual place on the sofa. I’ve tried, but he runs away!source ↗

scarletOwilde · r/cats · 4 upvotes

I'm scared that my cat would feel upset or depressed when i take him back i feel so bad and I'm not sure how cats react to thissource ↗

corelyp · r/cats · 2 upvotes

hopefully, i overthink about this lil shit way too muchsource ↗

corelyp · r/cats · 1 upvotes

Mines the same. I wanted her as an indoor cat but she'd run outside the moment we opened the door or window.source ↗

yeiamsatonthetoilet · r/cats · 1 upvotes

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