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Will my cat get depressed leaving a multi-cat home?

Leaving a multi-cat household can cause anxiety about whether a cat will feel upset or depressed in a single-cat environment. Overthinking this transition is common, though cats may also show independent behaviors like running outside when given the chance.

Overview
People affected3 accounts across 1 forum
Workarounds found4 items attempted
Community agreement8 total upvotes

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

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    Waiting for the cat to readjust over time, assuming the cat will be fine after a short absence.
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    Taking the cat to the vet for blood work to check health
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    Closing the door immediately after the cat comes inside for dinner
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    Waiting for the cat to decide to come in on their own when the weather gets cooler or rainy
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In their words

Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.

r/cats3 people · September 2026

“Now that the evenings are cooling, I want him to come back inside to take his usual place on the sofa. I’ve tried, but he runs away!”source ↗

scarletOwilde · r/cats · 4 upvotes

“I'm scared that my cat would feel upset or depressed when i take him back i feel so bad and I'm not sure how cats react to this”source ↗

corelyp · r/cats · 2 upvotes

“hopefully, i overthink about this lil shit way too much”source ↗

corelyp · r/cats · 1 upvotes

“Mines the same. I wanted her as an indoor cat but she'd run outside the moment we opened the door or window.”source ↗

yeiamsatonthetoilet · r/cats · 1 upvotes

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