Why is my child always late getting ready for school?
Children frequently find morning distractions instead of focusing on getting dressed and out the door. When parents try to force changes alone, it makes them feel like the only ones who care about punctuality while causing costly and stressful daily standoffs.
What people tried
Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.
Found another way around this?
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- 1Using incentive systems and reward charts like stickers or collectible cardsDid this help you?
- 2Setting morning alarms earlierDid this help you?
- 3Taking away privileges or favorite items like game consoles when lateDid this help you?
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“Children are often late to school. My attempts at changing it made me feel I am the only person at home who cares about being on time and were generally costly”source ↗
Where this came up
People with this problem also raised
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- 6Why do schools blame teachers for student absenteeism?
- 2Do you enforce bedtimes at sleepovers?
- 8Why do managers care about arriving 5 minutes early?
- 11Preschooler refusing to follow rules and leaving the classroom