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Buyer falsely claims item is fake to force a return

Buyers sometimes falsely claim items are not genuine to force a return out of buyer's remorse, leaving sellers struggling to get platforms to acknowledge they acted in good faith. Conversely, buyers dealing with bad transactions face terrifying situations like being provided fraudulent customs forms and low valuation labels for expensive custom items, risking heavy fines and prosecution for customs fraud if they return the product.

Overview
People affected4 accounts across 3 forums
Workarounds found9 items attempted
Community agreement267 total upvotes

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

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    retesting the item to prove authenticity
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    Bypassing Etsy to do a credit card chargeback
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    Keeping the item without shipping it back if Etsy already issued a refund
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    Gather supporting documentation from the manufacturer and prepare for a potential chargeback
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    Accept the return, deduct shipping costs and a restock fee, and block the customer
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    Accept the return and refund to avoid a chargeback, then block the customer
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    Refusing to participate or stopping work for the client
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    Finding a new job
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    Playing dumb and following direct instructions
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In their words

Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.

r/Etsy2 people · September 2026

“Bought a custom ring, ring arrives way late and it's objectively terrible. Seller refuses to honor their refund policy, Etsy steps in and rules in my favor. They provide a return shipping label to another country with the dollar amount as $100 and tariff code for imitation jewelry. It was listed for $3600, I paid $2,173. If I ship this back to them, I get fined and possibly prosecuted for customs fraud. WTF is happening?”source ↗

Frostyarn · r/Etsy · 260 upvotes

“He keeps saying item is not silver and has forced a return.”source ↗

“So now I will have to refund him but I would like Etsy to aknowledge me having acted in good faith.”source ↗

Fabulous_Flower_4965 · r/Etsy · 2 upvotes
r/Accounting1 person · October 2026

“The owner wants me to code personal things such as personal subscriptions as meals and entertainment deduction.”source ↗

“They had me code their pelaton subscription as a transportation so they can deduct that.”source ↗

“They told me if I couldn’t figure out anything just code it in something where we can fully deduct.”source ↗

Ok-Hornet2883 · r/Accounting · 50 upvotes
r/shopify1 person · September 2026

“A first time customer is requesting a return on an item because they’re claiming I sold them a fake item (which cannot be true since I received it directly from the incumbent company).”source ↗

joyfulsneakers · r/shopify · 5 upvotes

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