What to do when neighborhood kids won't stop coming to your door
Persistent neighborhood children show up at people's doors insisting on coming inside and ignoring requests to leave, while their parents or guardians are absent or uncooperative. Dealing with these unsupervised kids leaves residents stuck managing aggressive trespassing with no adult authority present to intervene.
What people tried
Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.
- 1cutting off contact with the neighbor children
- 2joining sports teams, arts courses, or hobbies outside the neighborhood
- 3reducing play dates and keeping children strictly supervised
- 4Taking the toddlers back and away from the older children
- 5Telling the kids firmly that they cannot come inside because their adult is unknown
- 6Avoiding evening walks or planning around times when the children are outside
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“Following as we are dealing with a vaguely similar situation.”source ↗
“I tell them to stop, take the toddlers back and away from them, etc, but they are very persistent and there is no guardian for me to look at to stop them.”source ↗
“she tells me that her grandma isn't gonna come outside for me to meet her and that she doesn't care where she goes.”source ↗
“I cannot have these kids coming to my door and insisting on coming inside.”source ↗
Where this came up
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