Said It Here

When should you take the camera out of a toddler's room?

Parents keep video monitors well past toddlerhood because kids still use them to call out after nightmares, yet watching constantly makes it difficult to step back and trust their growing independence. This creates a lingering gray area where families aren't sure if removing the camera is a developmental milestone or just a matter of personal comfort.

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

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    Waiting until the child asks for it to be removed
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    Switching to an audio-only monitor for privacy while retaining sound

In their words

Unedited, most upvoted first, each linked to the thread it came from.

I'm in no rush removing it, but I'm just curious at what age did you take yours out of your child's room?source ↗

Former-Cheetah2521 · r/Parenting · 18 upvotes

Mine is also 4 and likes having his in case he has a nightmare and needs us in the night.source ↗

Smooth_thistle · r/Parenting · 1 upvotes

He kept trying to climb to turn off the green lightsource ↗

MercuryInCanada · r/Parenting · 1 upvotes

It’s hard to trust a kid be somewhat independent when you have the ability to literally watch them any time you want.source ↗

HenryLafayetteDubose · r/Parenting · 1 upvotes

Where this came up

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