Said It Here

Do I need a details card if I have a wedding website?

Including a details card solely to direct guests to a wedding website can feel redundant, but skipping it leaves some people unsure of how to find the information or RSVP. This tension makes it difficult to finalize stationery without second-guessing whether guests will know where to look.

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

  1. 1
    Putting all information and RSVP details on a wedding website
  2. 2
    Placing information on the back of the invitation
  3. 3
    Inviting one friend at a time and waiting for declines before inviting the other couple
  4. 4
    Finding a larger venue or eloping
  5. 5
    Cutting a friend entirely rather than splitting up a couple

In their words

Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.

r/weddingplanning2 people · September 2026

“I keep going back and forth whether to include a details card.”source ↗

“Would it be silly to include a details card that just says "for more information and to rsvp please visit our website"?”source ↗

MedicalRaccoon9431 · r/weddingplanning

“I’m having a small wedding (48 guests maximum, per venue rules) and am conflicted on whether to invite significant others of close friends.”source ↗

“Part of my dilemma is that I’ve met both guys 1-2 times and they’re great, I just don’t know them well enough to remove family or other friends from the list to make room.”source ↗

“However, part of me is worried that my friends will be lonely across the country and that it’s bad etiquette to not include their SO. Will I be rude for doing so?”source ↗

pictureperfectpeople · r/weddingplanning

Where this came up

r/weddingplanningguest liststationerywedding etiquettewedding planning

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