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Why do online sellers send useless automated replies?

Automated messages from online shops often lack essential order updates or return dates, leaving buyers stranded without a timeline. These vague responses are worse than no reply at all because they create false engagement while completely failing to answer basic questions about pending orders.

Overview
People affected3 accounts across 2 forums
Workarounds found5 items attempted
Community agreement193 total upvotes

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

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  1. 1
    canceling the order
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    checking the estimated delivery date manually
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    waiting to see if the order ships on time
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  4. 4
    Calling sellers directly by phone
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    Using a business broker instead of contacting individual owners directly
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In their words

Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.

r/Etsy2 people · December 2025

“An awful auto response.”source ↗

“OP has an outstanding order. If the shop has outstanding orders when they go on vacation, the auto reply really NEEDS to clarify when they will be back and when the buyer can expect a response.”source ↗

lostterrace · r/Etsy · 133 upvotes

“the autoreply really needs to actually convey information. Like "we will return from our pillaging on [specific date] and respond to you then" would be helpful. Non-reply replies like this are almost worse than no reply at all. 😭”source ↗

ChurchyardGrimm · r/Etsy · 58 upvotes
r/smallbusiness1 person · September 2026

“Most of my emails and messages to owners go complety ignored and I can only reach people via phone, assuming they have a number to call.”source ↗

CrimsonBolt33 · r/smallbusiness · 2 upvotes

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