Parents insisting missing work was turned in
Teachers frequently notify parents about zeros or missing assignments, only to face angry demands for grade updates because the student claimed they submitted it. Even when teachers provide visual proof from online platforms or pull the incomplete assignment directly from the student's own materials, parents often dismiss the evidence and side with the child's story.
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Parents insisting missing work was turned in
- 1Documenting the conversation and moving on without arguing.Did this help you?
- 2Forwarding visual proof of the missing assignments from the online portal.Did this help you?
- 3Asking the parent if they know how to look up the online grade book themselves.Did this help you?
- 4Making the student go through their backpack in front of the teacher.Did this help you?
- 5Switching entirely to digital submissions to maintain a concrete timestamped record.Did this help you?
- 6Replying to parents with a screenshot of the digital platform showing no submission.Did this help you?
In their words
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“I love it when they act like we woke up in the morning and thought “What random problem can I invent today so I can spend my time arguing with a parent?” So frustrating.”source ↗
“My math books are consumables and last year one of my students (third grade) would SWEAR he did his work and turned it in. I would have him bring me his book and show me the page was missing. It was always still in there, half completed.”source ↗
“Or the parent email demanding to know why I gave their kid a zero on an assignment the parent insists they saw the kid complete and submit online.”source ↗
“I called a kid with a super low grade (single digit)’s parent for the second time in three weeks. Basically, “hey, I haven’t gotten any of the missing work and they’re missing more work now, too” and got told, “well, they said they turned it in””source ↗
“My favorite is whem they look through their materials and say "I don't have it." So I look through their materials and find it within 5 seconds.”source ↗
“I get emails from parents saying "my child turned something in, can you update their grade?" I check and nothing has been turned in. I tell the parents and forward visual proof if the assignment was supposed to be turned in online. They don't respond or just say "They told me they did it."”source ↗
“Had this happen a lot last year, so this year everything is turned in via Canvas.”source ↗
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