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How to build team connection when working completely remotely

Building interpersonal connection is much harder when teammates have never met in person and have no chance of coming into a physical office. This lack of face time makes it very difficult to feel genuinely connected to colleagues, leaving remote teams struggling to maintain the same level of cohesion as in-person groups.

Overview
People affected2 accounts across 1 forum
Workarounds found5 items attempted
Community agreement11 total upvotes

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

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    Planning occasional on-site all-hands meetings
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    Making casual phone calls to engineers to chat
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    Sharing information in ways that respect time zones
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    Setting up short weekly async updates
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    Creating a team values statement collaboratively
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In their words

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r/ITManagers2 people · September 2026

“Speaking personally, it's very difficult to feel connected to someone you've never met in person.”source ↗

poizone68 · r/ITManagers · 9 upvotes

“I find that seeking the same level of interpersonal connection for remote teams is harder, (my team is fully remote not a chance of coming to the office for us).”source ↗

Attack-Chihuahua-85 · r/ITManagers · 2 upvotes

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